The deepest and most complicated relationship in the world is between parents and children. Layers upon layers of reference, meetings, and disconnection between worldviews along with a fascinating way to start the reincarnation of life.
Earth is the only planet where the beginning of one person’s life is completely dependent on another person already on it. As mentioned, the earth is a land world and therefore life on it develops while doing, as well as physical life.
In order to understand the relationship between parents and children, it is important to understand the stages in which a soul is helped to descend to earth for development in the form of a life incarnation. Reincarnation is one of the relatively rare forms of development.
You can develop in a variety of places and a variety of ways except for reincarnation. The choice of incarnation is a brave choice since it allows an opportunity to experience the theoretical self in a physical sensory experience. An experience that is not easy for a soul whose character lines are its anchor and the knowledge that roots its very existence.
The first stage of the incarnation is the preparation stage. About two years before the soul arrives in the world, it chooses the world it wants to be in according to the foundation through which it wants to develop. The earth, for example, is a world of soil – through which one develops with the help of application, action, and realization. There are worlds of air, fire, water, light, sky, vibration, and resonance.
In the preparation phase, the soul learns the general laws of the space it is about to reach and the laws of the personal space it will have. (The family, the community, and the culture she chooses to be born into).
In the second stage the soul moves to a round table. At this point, the soul has completed its preparations for the earth. Together with her are at the table the guardian angel, responsible for the foundation in which she chose to develop, responsible for the type of development, a representative from the spiritual libraries and the world in which the soul was born, other officials, and the soul itself. At the table they decide on the lessons of spiritual life, the role of the soul in reincarnation, the choice of whether to be born when she remembers who she is in the world of souls, and more. At the end of the meeting, they decide on human character traits that will support spiritual development.
In the third stage, the soul reaches the birth canal. The one responsible for her soul element and the one responsible for the element of the space in which she chose to be born pass with her through the birth canal and after her body leaves the mother to whom she chose to be born in the second stage, she unites with her and begins the reincarnation of life.
The parent is the birth canal of the soul. After the long way she traveled to reach the earth, the parent is the first to open the way for her to observe the laws of space. The training she underwent was training in the field of knowledge to know the laws of space themselves. But with the meeting between the parent and the child, the parent usually formulates the agendas, the lack, and the worldview surrounding the upbringing of the child. The child has difficulty differentiating between the laws of space that will help him realize his development and the parent’s worldviews and create the mind and the ego – the two acquired systems that should help him contain the parent’s view that there is no full self-fulfillment on earth.
In this area, a symbiotic relationship is formed between the parent and one of the children. You can read about it in the following blog on the subject.
But remember – the development of a type of cooperation between parents and children requires you as parents and children to separate the agendas you wish to adopt from the laws of the space you are obliged to adopt.
If you adopt more of an agenda than space laws – you will be within the limits.
If you adopt more laws of space and call them an agenda – you will lose yourself in defined character lines of anarchy.
It is recommended to continue reading the blog on symbiosis after reading this blog.