A guide to daily practice of a life lesson—go through it now with ease and enjoyment

“Why do things happen to me?”
In most cases, this is one of the main questions that will lead people on a journey of spiritual development and the desire to connect with their soul. Wondering about the challenges, obstacles, unexplained cases, and also the exciting surprises that come to visit our lives makes us reconsider our logic and the way we understand reality.
The most basic universal pattern in this type of logic is the pattern of cause and effect.

According to this pattern, every action we take will lead to a different result and we have natural instincts to match the action with the desired result. This law of space requires duality, as long as we do not place the actions we take on a certain axis, then we cannot separate our inner reality from our outer reality and thus we cannot think that an inner action will lead to an outer result.

In order for us to be able to expand this type of logic quickly and easily, our soul has equipped us with a tool: a life lesson. A way to look at the world in a mirror image of the type of logic of cause and effect. The starting point of the life lesson is that our very existence in the world is built from a set of abilities. These abilities are the unique way in which we refract the light into realization in denser layers. The path from the inner essence and being to this light is a light in itself that the inner infinity you produce.

If you choose to reach a life incarnation, you choose to give up your accessibility to all information and find it anew through the abilities that you already access. Rediscovering access to abilities is precisely your life lesson.

The collective consciousness, the collaborations, the soul support, the vision and the human character that you chose before you were born, all of these are just some of the examples that are available to you to realize the mission.
In fact, they cannot be expressed until you know the list of gaps that stand between you and the passage of the lesson. This template distinguishes between the human personality and your practical personality and is arranged chronologically:

1. External reality and everything that a person believes is unrelated to it.
2. Attempting to create connections between the outside and the inside.
3. Interpretation.
4. Value.
5. Judgment and criticism—positive and negative.
6. Anger
7. Fear
8. Gap
9. Lack.
10. Dual inner reality.
    After you go through all these stages in relation to the ability you wish to discover, you can officially declare that you have passed the life lesson and are ready for the next stage. In this article, I will review 5 actions that will help you pass your life lesson with pleasure and ease.

Action 1: Recognize the benefits

Our starting point for all the upcoming stages is that each person has full responsibility, knowledge, choice and control over their own personal development. Therefore, the reason why a life lesson has not yet passed is that you have a benefit from it. Defense mechanisms—pain and suffering—are not gains. Gain is an internal need that your subconscious does not believe it can get a response to without this gain being present. There are usually 3 gains that are the template for this need:

1. Need for love.
2. Need for security.
3. Need for joy.
   These three needs create repetitive behavior. The subconscious, in collaboration with the unconscious ego, creates a system of repetitive behaviors that ultimately maintain the fixed behavior and create a life lesson.
   This system leads to results that in most cases people are not sure of. In fact, the basis of the lesson is where a person is sure that what he is doing is the most beneficial action that he can choose for himself, given the circumstances.

Action 2: Provide a different response to the need

We finished the previous step with one or more of the templates of the three needs as they are expressed in your life. In the second step, we are looking for an emotional description of three versions:

1. Who am I with the lesson?
2. Who am I after the lesson?
3. Who am I when I have already received a response to the need from the previous stage?
   These questions that deal with self-definition position the need in a different place and in proportions that do not harm the person’s personal security.

Up until this stage, your perspective on yourself was based on the lesson. You will likely have difficulty observing yourself, so it is recommended to seek help from close friends, family, or professionals such as therapists and spiritual life coaches to get through this stage.

Action 3: Get to know your toolbox

A life lesson can break your inner resilience. Cause self-confidence to change and create a gap between what is said and what actually happens in internal and external reality. If you choose to go through your life lesson, you change the rules of the game. From the question: How can I bridge the gap between who I am and who I want to be?
You move to the question: What do I currently have in my possession to make the situation a maximum profit and a minimum cost according to the judgment of who I want to be?

Every person has a set of feelings, thoughts, desires, raw knowledge, and personal abilities. The passage of the life lesson is a magical gateway in the eyes of the soul to bring into the Earth all the possibilities of knowing them in a way that preserves their original pattern, but also adapts them to the dense layers of the Earth.

Action 4: Create a supportive environment and harness the values ​​of lack

Not every life lesson is difficult. A life lesson becomes difficult over time and only after a prolonged period of inattention to various situations. If your lesson becomes difficult, it is likely that the need that the life lesson was trying to protect is so deep that it has involved the values ​​of lack. Your mind system, which is responsible for containing all the acquired emotions that you have learned in the collective consciousness such as guilt, shame, expectation and disappointment. In addition, the ego system, which is responsible for holding the consciousness of your self-worth and explaining why the problem you are trying to solve at that moment is unsolvable because you do not have all the skills and abilities that you expect of yourself.

If you are going through a life lesson and you encounter these patterns of lack, do not skip.
Give yourself a response to the lack and strengthen your vitality in ways that are pleasant to you.
Maximum pleasantness = maximum passing of the lesson.

Action 5 – Surrender to the process and experience it fully

On Earth, which is based on creation from infinity, there are no processes. You can go through your life lesson in one day or in many years. Most people stop at the last stage and are afraid.

As long as you examine the behaviors you are confident in, you are progressing towards the passage of the life lesson. Until the moment your lesson receives a full response to the need from which it was created. At this point, congratulations! You can curiously get to know the next version of yourself until full union with the soul.

In conclusion, our life lessons are the way we look at the world from our own perspective and move on to look at it from the world’s perspective. You are invited to experiment with the spiritual quizzes on the site and discover what your life lesson is. I would also be happy to talk to you and understand together – how the unique pattern of knowledge inherent in them can be expressed on Earth.

With wishes for a pleasant and developing development,
Shani.