One of the most confusing issues on the planet is the balance between receiving and giving as the key to
self-transformation. On the one hand, we live in a world where the external resources seem limited to us, on the other hand the internal resources seem unlimited to us. Into this system of giving and receiving also enter elements that change the picture even more:
- Symbols – money and honor are just small symbols of many kinds for means that the one who receives them is the one who should give them their meaning.
- Needs – Need is based on lack, so as long as it runs our receiving and giving system we are not using the infinite energy of the world to allow flow.
Apart from the fact that a balance between receiving and giving is a collective lesson, it is also a way to get out of the belief of lack. As soon as you maintain this type of balance, which is not based on lack, the energy is always infinite and the considerations in its income or expenditure are based only on maximizing its potential.
That is, about the way in which giving or receiving will spread as much energy of authenticity as possible in as many different places as possible, starting from our inner authenticity to global authenticity and the relationship between the different worlds. For this, we need recognition. The relationship between recognition and lack is complex.
People need to think through different glasses than lack in order to recognize their ability.
We meet the issue of recognizing abilities at all points in a balancing class between receiving and giving.
Ability recognition is a term that describes our internal lack system. On the one hand, we feel a lack of recognition of ability, which corresponds to a belief in lack. On the other hand, we feel a recognition of ability, which is also temporary. The ability exists, we cannot make it a lack or an excess because it exists thanks to itself, independently and without the need for additional aids.
As soon as we remove the discussion of ability recognition from the system, we discover the profit.
Profit is the way in which we maintain the belief of lack and as a result we put too much consideration into our receiving and giving system. The more considerations there are, the more the balance goes wrong.
The original purpose of our receiving and giving system is to keep us moving, that is, evolving.
As we are in greater movement we can develop in a more balanced way because we are not blocked to influence from the universe and our ability to influence it back.
The principle of uniqueness within unity is the principle that preserves the balance in all worlds.
Every soul that is born speaks of preserving its uniqueness within unity as a commitment that is a guiding principle within its development. The soul undertakes to maintain its unique character lines while bringing them to expression within the overall unity.
Maintaining a balance between receiving and giving has two components:
Understanding on all levels – any energy we choose to put in or take out of ourselves should be understood on all levels. Understanding is the full synchronization between the inner voices with the different roles. As soon as the synchronization between the roles happens, reality understands that the person wants purely and turns the desire into reality. This section, apart from the fact that it is a balance between receiving and giving, is also the recipe for creating reality. That is, as soon as all the inner voices support a certain desire, it can come true.
In order to mobilize an inner voice to support the desire, it is important to understand the roles of the inner voices. Once the role is understood, it can be adapted to the desire and brought to fulfillment in reality. Here are the roles of the inner voices:
- The brain – solves problems and creates strategies to link to reality.
- The heart- feels and directs the authentic desire.
- Intuition – the internal library of knowledge and responsible for the will. Uses desires to highlight the inner knowledge that the soul wants to emphasize because it is required at that moment.
- The mind – the acquired system whose function is to feel acquired emotions (in lack) such as disappointment, shame, expectation, guilt, belonging and more… Its function is to preserve the belief of emotional lack.
- The ego – the system whose function is to explain why the brain cannot solve a certain problem by means that preserve a cognitive deficiency. It is the second acquired system and uses cognitive tools to do its job such as criticism, judgment and doubt.
As we will see, the main difficulty is to combine our desire with the role of the mind and ego. Therefore, it is possible to adopt 3 main strategies:
- To divert the attention of the mind and ego to a lack in another area – in areas that are connected to our dreams and ambitions in the other three systems in full, the mind and ego cannot create a lack.
- Proportions – the mind and the ego hold the self-worth. As soon as you put the desire in proportion and explain to yourself that it will not change your thinking about yourself and will not make you bigger than you can contain, then the mind and ego do not feel threatened.
- Love- Love is the only energy in the world that does not contain lack. As soon as you love everything and whoever is related to your desire, the mind and ego realize that they have no meaning.
Use these strategies to recruit both the mind and the ego to your strengths and create the reality you want.
The presumption of innocence – most people who feel that they are not in a situation of danger use the presumption of innocence. This term indicates a margin of error according to which until a certain issue does not interfere with life there is no need to deal with it. We cannot feel fulfilled, protected, or have all the resources available without having done anything for it. If we continue to feel this way it will be an illusion that will end very quickly. The use of the presumption of innocence violates the balance between receiving and giving in two ways:
A. In replacing pleasantness with comfort – in situations of static and lack of initiative.
B. In creating logical or emotional explanations to justify a particular vulnerability or situations of damage to personal and general security.
You can use the following tips to balance your receiving and giving:
- Your emotional value is a compass – give and receive according to the emotional value you gave or received.
- There is no giving without receiving – maintain a continuous flow of energy.
- Involve as few considerations as possible in your balance between receiving and giving.
Pay attention – in order to understand in the purest way the article in front of you, you must understand that there is no lack. All the resources you need at a given moment are with you. As soon as you feel a gap between the desired and what is now, know that this is a life lesson.