One of the most sophisticated lessons in your collective life lessons is the lesson of hierarchy. Collective lessons dominate the lives of all of us, especially collective lessons that the moral tendency is to oppose since they threaten the illusion of material freedom that we place upon ourselves. We need to get things in order before we discuss the way to go through your hierarchy lesson with awareness.
First of all, what is a collective lesson?
A collective lesson is a group lesson, it can be chosen for all people born in a certain period, year, group, or position. Its purpose, just like any regular lesson, is to prepare you to realize your role. But compared to a regular lesson, the collective lesson also prepares you to cooperate with the people with whom you are supposed to do the particular part of the job together.
A collective lesson is a lesson that enables much greater systemic changes than an individual lesson. As a result, the internal resistances that arise as a result of the lesson are also great. A collective lesson brings together in most cases principled, moral, and imaginary places. The self-morality in that place developed as a result of an old pain that was expressed through the gap between what is desired and what is found (or the representation of the collective lesson).
The hierarchy lesson is one of the clear examples of this. It contradicts one of the most famous motivations for joining the spirit world out of a place of oblivion.
What is a hierarchy lesson?
The hierarchy lesson is a collective lesson for children from 1955-1980. According to this lesson, freedom is derived from obedience or resistance to a certain hierarchy. This hierarchy naturally uses the needs of the opposing person as resources. Therefore, the owner of the hierarchy lesson will choose to take a firm position in front of him.
In most cases, the owners of the hierarchy lesson will also pass the lesson on to the next generation after them. Many of them will take one of two options:
1. Obedient position to the norms.
2. A position that opposes the norms.
Note: There can also be additional positions on the scale of both parties.
The next generation, lacking the lesson of hierarchies, will choose to arrange the lesson as complementary answers to their lives. The parents will choose to complete the answer for their children in a way that reflects their position in front of their lesson, and not in a way that objectively reflects the laws of the space and allows the children to choose their opinion on these laws.
How the lesson of hierarchy is reflected in our lives:
If you have a certain position in front of laws and boundaries. If you feel that all people are equal to each other and each person knows in the best way what is good for him – a sign that you have a lesson of hierarchy in your list. Remember, you can inherit this lesson from your parents, or be the children who prepare the ground for your parents to pass their lesson.
Know – unlike a regular life lesson, a hierarchy lesson is an evolving lesson. Even when you pass it, you continue to learn more about it. The function of the hierarchical entity is to convert temporary feelings into eternal principles. To preserve emotion as an eternal basis of spiritual essence within the experience of a limited material body.
In light of this, the following are several characteristics of the lesson of hierarchies in life:
1. Difficulty or excessive ease in setting external boundaries.
2. An attempt at mutual learning on topics that only one party (you or another person) understands better.
3. Judgment based on a sense of security – people who express an opinion that does not threaten your basic values, will receive respect, listening, and inclusion from you. On the other hand, people who undermine your basic values will receive immoral judgment from you in the guise of the bride.
4. Loyalty – or: the surprising clause – supposedly without any relation to the hierarchy lesson per se, but very much related to its development and continuity. People with a degree of hierarchy will make the one they feel threatened by the focus of their giving. They will guard their giving in front of people they feel threatened by, people who are unexpected or upset their sense of comfort. On the other hand, people who make the owners of the hierarchy lesson feel overconfident and will not be a threat will receive from the owners of the hierarchy lesson only when they feel comfortable, without any connection or maximum empathy or going out of their way for the people who instill a sense of security.
The difficulty of the Hierarchy life lesson:
1. Moral difficulty – it is impossible to behave with real sensitivity when the threat of one person’s greater influence over another is in the background all the time. Many times, the owner of the lesson of hierarchies is supposed to find a hierarchy to trust and sometimes he is supposed to be the hierarchy himself. These two stages cover each other, only when a person completes them does he clear the authentic element of the hierarchy completely.
2. Difficulty in concentrating power – a person who concentrates all his power on himself or in the external world cannot manage an equal relationship between the internal reality and the external reality.
3. Trust – if there is no hierarchy to trust and equally if a person does not see himself as a hierarchy that can be trusted, it is impossible to believe in other people on all levels. This section also preserves the belief in lack; Since the most primary lack is unbelief.
Ways to pass the collective life rate hierarchies:
Check the following points with yourself:
– How do you react when confident people tell you opposite opinions?
– Are there closed circles regarding your self-worth?
– Is it more important to you to ask than to know the answer?
– Do you go out of your way for people you are sure of in your relationship?
– Do you know how to receive love?
– Do you allow yourself to know?
Remember – hierarchy is not a reduction of one person’s importance to another person. Hierarchy is part of the most important boundary definition in the relationship between uniqueness and unity – every person who knows his sphere of influence knows where his resources are and from whom he can get answers to his needs.
Do you allow yourself to feel valued regardless of your place in the sphere of influence?
