Symbiosis – self-fulfillment through another self

Symbiosis – self-fulfillment through another self

Symbiosis is a type of relationship that manifests itself in many areas of life. This is a general soul life lesson for all souls living in a human body during this period. Symbiosis is a certain type of relationship between people that can be expressed in friendships, family, sibling relationships, and especially in parent-child relationships.

This relationship is divided into two parts:

The active part – is the part that initiates the entry into the symbiosis and is the only one that can also initiate the exit from it.

The active person had a certain desire in the past and he realized that he had no way to realize it. The active found such a passive person who realizes the desire he was unable to express. As a result, he decided that what comes naturally to the passive person, requires attention that will take place under one roof – the symbiosis.

The active person brings out the symbiosis by feeling, thinking, wanting, and taking responsibility for the passive person in every area. He feels a responsibility to realize the inner world of the passive person.

The passive person is the person whom the active person sees as the fulfillment of his desires and wishes. He will often be extremely quiet or rebellious and hold one of the two extremes of excess or lack of self-expression. The passive person enters the symbiosis without being aware of it. He will often use symbiosis as a kind of worldview that will give confidence to one of the extreme ways of expression he uses. The passive person is not interested in symbiosis but uses it to try to get out of it without success. Only when the passive person sees the active person as a role model, and not a person who will hold everything he does not want to hold in his place – he will be able to initiate an exit from the symbiosis.

In other words, it is about two people who put themselves under one internal roof – feelings, thoughts, desires, and needs are identical to each other. Along with a point of view towards everyone who is outside the symbiosis as having an interest that harms the sense of unity of the participants.

The symbiosis appears to both participants to have many advantages:

• Confidence
• unconditional love
• emotional independence
• Keeping each of the parties connected to their authenticity
• There is no need for conflicts – the relationship is always harmonious.
• Along with many advantages that are specific to many symbiotic relationships.

All these advantages are only an illusion. The symbiosis causes both parties to degenerate their abilities and block the personal development of each other. The symbiosis degenerates the coping muscles and independent limits.

Worse, it makes each of the parties see reality as they think it is right to see it and not as it is. As a result, huge gaps are created, especially on the passive side of the symbiosis, regarding dealing with life, and a fragmented worldview is created that is not factually related to reality.

Leaving symbiosis is not easy. Symbiosis is a transparent worldview through which we see things. The change is not changing what you see, but changing the glasses through which you see. Find your laws of symbiosis and see how you can separate your shared feelings, thoughts, and desires. Of course, each case individually.

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